Sunday, December 31, 2006
2006 - A Reflection...Someone once told me, that reflecting helps an individual plan his path out for the future. At the end of every year, I always look back, with great earnest, singling out the positives and negatives that has taken place during the course of the year. This year's no different.
I had a wonderful 2006, for many a reason. In fact, it was even better than my 2005. And it had to do with lots of turning points.
FriendsSwami once mentioned this quote, "Friends are like frogs in a well. When the well's full, lots of frogs hop in. But when its empty, most of 'em jump out to seek another well."
I finally saw the truth in that phrase. Some unpleasantries took place between a few people this year, and at the end of the day, I too had some part to play for the misunderstandings. Oh well, if its meant to be, its meant to be.
Then there were those, who preferred seeking out pastures anew. Again, if its meant to be, its meant to be.
But it only made me wiser, and highlight something that Prabhu once told me, on 1st Jan 2006. You realise that the larger the group of friends, the more trouble you have. Eventually, they all start peeling away, and the ones that are left, are those who stick with you through thick and thin.
Events during the year made me realise this. And I have nobody to blame, except fate, perhaps. Its like the circle Robert De Niro spoke about in Meet The Fockers. There are only some whom you allow to step into it. ]
I have my own constants, and I'm glad to have them around. These people, some of our friendships stemmed right from the time we were in Primary school. Their presence would never go unnoticed, and I'm really glad to have realised this.
God Bless Them.
Academic ProgressIf I ever had the most suay-est year in recent times, it would have been 2005. So many things, happening in such short notice. All of this, took a heavy toll on my maiden semester in school.
The malaise continued right till June, when I was placed on AP. That jolted the lights out of me. 'Coz another performance like that, and its strike 3 for me la. SPH was the perfect place to get me going for my second year. Tanya and Daniel were always providing the much needed boost, and with a few altercations to my lifestyle, improvements were being made.
Nothing beats a good start, I realise. Even if it means, having a PERSONAL COUNTDOWN timer as your MSN nick. To me, and a few others, we found it of great use during the course of the Semester. Of course, there were those who found it an eyesore. At the end of the day, it sure did aid me, and that's what matters. Got a problem, delete me off lorr...
And yes, the new year will begin with me getting out of Academic Standing. =)
SailajaI cannot leave her out, without the turnaround I've had in my year. She had been the one constant who had always been my pillar of strength, the one who always provides me with lots of belief in myself, and especially provide me with warmth and love.
For those who still wonder who she is, she is the (l)ass of my life.. =)
Sai and I have this understanding that we all have our own flaws and faults. Habitual ones, we can change. Character faults, you can never change. End of the day, its all about having a common understanding and trust as the basis of our relationship. We believe in that, and can see this blossoming over the new year.
I love you, Sailasaaaaa...
The Future...When 2005 was drawing to a close, I couldn't have wished for a speedier end. Now that 2006 is ending, there's just a tinge of sadness that comes along with it. But life's all about moving on, and I believe 2007 would be even rosier.
Niva's 21st, good movies coming out, Sai's 21st, weddings (2006 had a record-breaking 20 functions from my family and close buds), good movies, the list goes on.
I wish everybody a blessed year ahead.
Sorgam Madhuvile... Sorkum Azhagile...
Drink Safe. =)
PS I found this site to be rather interesting. Its a numerology site, does predictations for your upcoming year. Found this site a year ago, and when reading my 2006 forecast again today, I was amazed at the close proximity of their predictions.
Click
Here
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Sunday, December 10, 2006
A Special Ode, to a Special Friend...No no, pls, this is, not one filled entirely with satire and sarcasm. A really heartfelt one, to my arch-nemesis who plagiarises some of my content on his blog.
We know him, as
the Desker Rocker. I know him, as ****** ****..
As you count down your days to swapping your IC for that green 11B, I would like to dedicate the song on the right, to you. For everything that you've been, a great friend, a worthy opponent on MSN Games and Pool, a fellow Red, and of course, the kway teow whose always a notch above the rest...
Dhoom Machale, my friend..
PS Rafa dedicates the 4-0 mauling of Fulham to you, especially since this could be the last Liverpool match you watch before you enlist..
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Friday, December 08, 2006
How to be, The CLASSIC Ex BF...
Girls would always know, about that one ex bf, who'd give 'em terrible memories, not so much about the r/s but rather, the ones after the r/s. You usually find such doofuses (if there ever was such a word) in our wonderful Indian community, and as always, the supernova has stumbled upon one these past few days..
So want a lesson on how to be a classic ex bf??
Check this out..
Lesson 1: Shout OutYeah, do the whole, I'm so madly in love with you thingy, keep on callin your ex at unearthly hours, and if she doesn't even bother to pick up, continue callin her house, her house phone, her brother's phone, her doggy's phone, her neighbour's phone, the public phone below her block etc etc. Then, once she eventually decides to hear you out, scream your head out, like a raving lunatic, then do the whole,
I-am-in-such-a-state-becoz-of-you-thing.
That clears Lesson 1.
Lesson 2: PropagateSo you realise your ex gf doesn't give two hoots about your rants. You also realise, she's starting to see someone else. You also happen to get pictures (try ransackin her computer when she's not at home) too. So, go about propagating the new affair by creating a new Friendster Profile with those pictures and add people close to you and your ex. Oh, please do not commit spelling mistakes on them. C'mon, I'm sure you wouldn't want your English tutor to die of a heart attack upon hearing about your grasp of the language, innit??
And do not stop there, go on tellin' a sob story about how you were jilted by your ex, and how she has the heart to do such a thing, blah blah blah. You get the drift. Your main idea, to create problems between the happy couple and make you the victim.
Lesson 2 - Complete.
Lesson 3: ThreatenGet your hands on the numbers of this new fella, and now, focus on trying to scare him off your ex. Yeah, do the whole, "Dei, I will come down to your school, and slash you dei. You dunno who I am dei. I bought prata at Simpang yesterday dei."
Of course, whilst it may lead to the plan gettin' backfired, there is a small chance that the fella may actually back out. That is, if you happen to be some gang leader la, not some small fry from a gang, or worse, got kicked out from that gang.
If it still doesn't work out well, try sendin' a message to the fella. A good example, would be the one displayed below.
hey ass hole u better stop calliong (insert girl's name)! understand! u fucker shes my galfen. if one more time i see ur number in her phone ur dead, i swear . u fucker , keep ur hands off another guys gal. u low lying asshole,u better learn how to respect anothers guys gal. tis is my warinng to u . if u wan to still pusch ur limit, then we will see. i swear i will see no mercy!(pardon the spelling errors. didn't wanna change anything from the original text)
Lesson 4: Tap Out??
So the threats got you backfired (c'mon, you might have realised that a GOOD ex bf would just walk away and try to carry on with life), and end up having to carry on without her? Make it seem you've walked awayyyyyyy...
Till, like those WWE plots, where out of the blue, the heel character sneaks out from the crowd, and smashes the protaganist with a steel chair. Continue being a pest, either by sniggering around in the backgrounds or trying to wind up something, I dunno. Blame the new fella for writing posts about you, even if it was about Captain Vijaykanth and his bullet proof plate, or about how the new couple are so happily in love. In short, be a sour grape.
Call your ex like a few mths later, give her another sob story about how much you loved her so - all this, after a chance meeting somewhere. And then try and bring up old stories about how you had been victimised and such. Yeahh, girls like that, no?
Of course, in the end, you'd probably never get the girl EVER again, but hey, you've earned yourself a name now, eh?
THE CLASSIC EX BF... *drum roll
Oh, and try and insert low blows, and talk about the fella's mum's genitals. Yeah, you definitely would take the cake..
Lesson OVER...Simple, for one comment made like months ago, you wanna pull a fast one by saying I've been writing and talking about you eh? Whoever bothers about your existence, I wonder..
Dun worry, your antics have earned you a spot in my blog la.
Just remember, you get my attention again, you'd live to regret it. Still thinking about how cowardly I was to run to the police then?
Think about it, why of all places, Tanglin Police Station? =)
You the best la, my Guardian-who-once-threatened-to-harm-me.
Oh, forgot to reference my findings on the classic ex-bf..
Reference:
Classic Ex-BFEat your heart out...
12:58 PM
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Monday, December 04, 2006
Best Divorce Letter Ever...
Click on picture to read..
PS Click HERE to read full letter..
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